Basic Dating Tips for Men Who Love SSBBW

plus-size-women-datingAre you a man who loves BBW? It can be just as challenging for a man to find dates on BBW dating sites as it can be for a woman to do the same. Whether you’re a BHM or a regular-sized guy, you want to have a positive experience for both you and your BBW dates.

Here are a few tips to help you succeed on BBW sites.

 

1. Watch what you say. There is literally no person alive who is happy with their weight, whether they’re skinny, average, BBW, or super sized BBW. It’s best to keep your personal thoughts to yourself, even if you think that you need to lose weight yourself. Don’t jeopardize your trust with an BBW date by asking her if she’s on a diet.

 

2. Be honest about sex. Almost everyone enjoys sex, and if they don’t, then likely they aren’t seeking a partner. Don’t pester your BBW date about sex. That’s a given once people are in a relationship. Also, if you’re only into casual hook-ups, then be sure to mention that BEFORE you invite your date out. Then men wonder why women drop their dates quickly once they find out they’re only in it for the sex. So, stop watching all those unrealistic TV shows and be honest with yourself about what you really want.

 

3. Have a friend critique your BBW dating profile. It’s tempting to make up a fantasy profile when you’re online and no one can see the real you at the other end. But this defeats the purpose of finding dates or a soulmate. So, don’t be afraid to tear apart your dating profile and put up some real photographs of yourself. If you watch 20 hours of sports a week, put that in. Women who don’t like sports may appreciate some alone time with their friends while you watch sports. And have friends critique your BBW sites’ profiles. After they’ve had a good laugh, follow their advice to make changes.

 

4. Don’t just talk about yourself. It’s easy to understand why you signed up for a BBW dating site because you’re lonely. But remember that there are two people at each end of the computer. Don’t just chat about yourself endlessly, be sure to ask your BBW date questions too. Most women can forgive a chatterbox if you still ask them plenty of questions too. It also helps to apologize and say that you don’t regularly have someone to chat to during the day, so that’s why you can’t stop talking.

 

5. Bring a small gift. Women love gifts, but they shouldn’t be big or expensive, especially on the first date. Better yet, if it’s something you’ve made—a bottle of wine, a pin, cookies—women love handmade gifts even more.

 

If you’re uncertain how to behave on the plus size dating sites, just try to put yourself in the shoes of your future BBW dates. Soon you’ll find a date for all those lonely nights, and you may just find a future bride too!

Where Can I Find BBWs to Date?

bigbeautifulwomanAre you a man who is a BBW admirer but not certain where to find BBW singles? You may see many lovely BBWs at the grocery store, or in the mall, but if you’ve ever approached any, chances are they’ve been wearing a wedding ring or already have a boyfriend. You can certainly learn quickly that it’s not just the skinny women that get all the men!

 

Here are a few tips for when you are trying BBW dating.

 

1. BBW dating sites. Almost every single person nowadays tries the singles dating sites. There are dating sites for virtually every size of person, including BBW singles, and for every interest. While it can take a bit of time sorting through potential dates, most sites offer a smartphone app so you can stay respond to messages as they come in.

 

2. Don’t be afraid to block people. It’s not just women who can suffer from online bullies or harassing people online, as this can happen to men too. Don’t be afraid to utilize your BBW dating site’s features, such a blocking or ignore function. And don’t be afraid to report them to admin or customer support if someone has truly gotten out of line—most sites will remove any members who can’t play by the rules.

 

3. Be upfront. Many BBW singles may shy away from single men because they’re uncomfortable about themselves. But let it be known that you appreciate all types of women from diverse cultures, and who are in every shape and form. Then perhaps some of your admirers may let you know that they are single and interested! Best of all, make your BBW single friends feel positive about themselves. This is the first step to a great relationship!

 

4. Stay safe online. It’s not just women who can experience unsafe encounters too. It’s important to follow the same rules. Never give out your address, phone number, or workplace to women you have just met online. The BBW dating sites have apps or online messaging systems for a reason. Stick to using the systems that are already in place and don’t let anyone coerce you into giving up private information. Don’t trade personal information until you are confident that you want to have a relationship with a great BBW that you have been dating for several weeks.

 

5. Allot time for your dating adventures. It can be tempting to sit back and wait for dates to find you on your online plus size dating websites. But the more effort you put into it, the greater your chances that you’ll find some quality dates on your favourite BBW dating site. Many sites even have an automatic matching feature so most of the work is already done for you. Just be sure to regularly check out your matches!

 

The best place to find BBW singles is on a plus size dating sites. There are many choices, so find a few to try out. If you’re a BBW admirer, you will find many dates!