Do BBWs Go On Dates?

plussizesinglesIf you find yourself newly single, the dating world may perplex you. You may wonder if BBW singles really go on dates, and if so, is it simple to find them? You may also be a man who loves voluptuous women, but is uncertain who is single or not. The dating world is complicated, yet you want to be sure that you’re always respectful of others and don’t make anyone uncomfortable.

Here are a few ways to help you fit into this new and exciting world of plus size singles!

1. Be friends first. It can be uncomfortable to be around a BBW or BHM after they’ve asked you out, because you simply aren’t ready to get back into dating yet. Sometimes it’s just best to treat other people as friends, rather than as potential dates. Remember that old saying, “marry your best friend”. You should become friends first, then as you get to really know each other you can step up the romance. If you’re really meant to be with that person, it will happen in its own time.

2. Try BBW dating sites. Many people want to avoid dating sites because of past dating experiences. But bad experiences happen even if you find dates out in public. You’re going to have sift and weed through a lot of duds, so you may as well speed up the process by signing up for one of the many BBW dating sites.

3. Stick with it. You may reach the point where you’re tired of the BBW sites. You’ve messaged countless other singles but nothing has come of it. Perhaps the dates you have gone on have been fruitless. But it’s important to stick with it, particularly if you’ve been searching on the BBW dating site or at the local clubs. This is something that everyone has difficulties with, so you’re not alone with your feelings.

4. Be open to new experiences. It becomes comfortable doing the same things week after week. But others may think that you’re boring or not open to new experiences. While you may not wish to go skiing or skydiving, perhaps you can be open to trying a paint and sip night at the local gallery, or trying a game of golf. The more interests and hobbies you have, the greater the chances that you’ll meet some interesting and fabulous people.

5. Set aside date search time. It’s just like hunting for a new job, each day you need to set aside a few hours of time to look for what you want. Do it the same time each night. Choose a quiet time after you’ve had dinner, cleaned up, and put the kids to bed. Then you can relax and take your time browsing through BBW singles’ or BHM singles’ profiles. Spend time sending messages and responding to messages in turn.

 
The answer to the question of whether BBWs go on dates is yes! So, get out there and start dating!

How to Dealing with Multiple Divorces

191144-250x375-beautiful-woman-with-hands-in-pocketsNot only is it difficult to find your soul mate, but it can be difficult having a loving relationship with only one person for the rest of your life. Even experts say while humans have a desire to find a partner for life, they may not necessarily have brains that are wired for a long love life, like some animals such as swans have. On top of that, everyone is ever-changing in life, sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worst. Are you one of these people who has been married multiple times? Chances are you’ve experienced rejection during your BBW dating experiences.

Here are a few tips to help you achieve success on your BBW dating sites.

1. Have an honest profile. It’s great surprising your BBW singles and admirers with the fact that you love to ski, you’ve won a dancing award, or you met celebrities, but not so great for them to hear you’ve been married multiple times. Yet it’s important to get this little detail done, while you’re early on in messaging, emailing, or out on a coffee date with someone. If a person is right for you, they won’t care about this detail.

2. Emphasize your commitment. A person who has been married two or three times is showing the world that they can commit. They don’t just date one person, dump them, and move on. Your divorce history is showing that you want to be with a soulmate, but perhaps you just haven’t found the right person yet. But you do have a great willingness to commit!

3. Don’t place blame. When you’re on BBW dating site it can seem tempting to tell everyone how you ended up with terrible spouses. But that says more about you than them. It’s not right to complain about your spouses or partners. Try to think of some nice things to say about them. Remember that you loved your spouse enough to marry them, so you must have originally liked them. Plus, it presents you in a better light when you remain positive about your marriage experiences.

4. Be open to dating everyone. It can be tempting to fill out your BBW dating profile and say that you’re only willing to connect with other divorcees, but many singles don’t care about that status. So, if you’re willing to date singles who never married, or people who are separated, this is going to really increase your BBW dating pool, and maybe you’ll find someone a whole lot faster!

5. Offer marriage advice. Many dating sites have additional features, particularly if you’ve signed up for a paid membership. Some have forums that you can join and chat with other available BBW singles and their admirers. This is a great way to meet other people, and is less stressful. Perhaps you may meet someone interesting in the forums too!

 
Mentioning multiple divorces can be embarrassing for many BBWs, but it’s important to put the past to rest so that you can move on and meet some great singles!