How to Get Rid of Creeps When BBW Dating

5a81aa5d895d29d28f86e04639b797a2When you’re in the BBW dating world you’ll meet a wide range of people from all over the world. Some dates will be fascinating, some will be boring, and some will be creeps. This is why you should be careful before giving out your full name, phone number, address, or email address to anyone. While you can change your numbers or email, it’s a big hassle. The last thing you want is some guy constantly hassling you for a date, when you’re simply not interested.

Here’s how you need to stay safe on BBW dating sites.

1. Is he egotistical? These are the men who only talk about themselves, and they brag a lot. They may tell you that you aren’t good enough, or ask you endless questions about why you made the choices you have. Simply cut your messaging on BBW dating sites short if you’re getting a negative vibe. Instead, find men who are always respectful and supportive of your life choices, even if you feel you haven’t quite made it in your life yet. Also, when on BBW dating websites, only hang out with men who are honest in their messaging and aren’t typing messages full of double or hidden meanings. (Though funny jokes are always welcome!)

2. What are your senses telling you? During cavewoman days people relied more heavily on all their senses for survival. There’s even that sixth sense that tells you something is going to happen before it does. It’s important to listen to it. If you’re messaging online and getting a creep alert, cut your conversation short and contact that next guy on your list.

3. Getting rid of that persistent guy. No means no and nothing else. Don’t be afraid to tell them that they’re being too pushy on a BBW dating site, then cut the conversation short. And the good news is that dating sites have blocking features so you’ll never receive messages from that person again. Sadly, some guys try to sign up under a different profile. If you suspect that it’s the same guy, report him to customer service.

4. Lie in this instance. If you’re worried about being stalked on your plus size dating site, then start lying. Tell your creep that you have found a boyfriend, or you’re moving away, or you want ten kids. Anything to make him lose interest in you. It’s perfectly okay to lie when you’re trying to discourage a creep from pursuing you.

Always remember that big beautiful women were not put on this planet to serve anyone. Everyone is a human being and you are not under any obligation to go on BBW dates, finish a date, or engage in any sexual activity. Don’t be afraid to make a fuss—it’s better to look stupid than be harmed. But with a bit of extra care for your safety and security—online and in real life—you’ll have only fun and exciting dating adventures that could lead you to find that perfect partner!

Do I Date Others If I Think I’ve Found the Right One?

1cdce3c9d81e8b706a94e3054e931f28Are you one of the many BBW singles out there who thinks that you’ve found the “right one”? This may have been after several months of trying the BBW dating sites, or even years in some instances. Then one evening you go out on a fantastic date and think you’ve found the right one.

But what do you do when you have a long line of dates in your calendar? Do you change it that perhaps it won’t work out after all and go on those dates anyway? What if your partner has dates lined up too?

Here are a few ways to help you figure out this tricky question.

1. How well do you know your potential partner? Do you actually know your date’s real name? When you meet people on a BBW dating site often they use fake names or user ids. If you start falling in love with someone, you should ask all the pertinent questions about name, age, birthdate, where they work, work history, and cities they’ve lived in. If you feel like you’re falling in love with someone but don’t know a lot about them yet, that could be a sign that you’re not quite ready to commit. Perhaps you should continue dating others. During your BBW dating you may both agree to date others for a specific length of time, then stop and exclusively date each other once you feel you know each other really well.

2. Is it just a crush? Crushes can happen to us at any point in life, including during BBW dating. It may seem like a surprise, but often hormones still play a large part in our desires even as we age. There may be a clue in whether it’s happening slowly, or quickly. If it’s slow and you can both proceed through the natural stages of love, you may have just found the right person.

3. How does your date feel? Chances are you’ve met your date on a BBW dating site. Likely when they first met you they also had a bunch of dates lined up for the next few weeks. Do they still want to go on those dates even though they feel you two have a sure thing? You’ll both really need to be on the level and discuss this problem. Perhaps you’ll decide just to have coffee dates with others and not pursue any sort of physical activity. But it’s important to not lie about what your plans are. If they don’t want you to continue dating others, and you do and lie about it, then you are setting your relationship up for failure.

 

It sounds like a problem you’d love to have—you think you’ve  find the right guy (or gal), but you’re not certain how you should proceed. Remember to open communication with your potential partner to see if they feel the same way. And if you do have to cancel those dates, remember that you’re under no obligation to anyone! So, let’s hope that you can cancel a whole bunch of dates and begin your exclusive dating now!