Am I Ready to Date Again?

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Are you a BBW who has gone through a divorce or breakup? Perhaps your wonderful husband passed away? At some point, you’re going to start feeling lonely and want to get back to dating again. But on the other hand, you enjoy your freedom and not having to clean up after others, or perhaps you’re not quite ready to have kids yet.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself. They will lead to the big answer to whether you’re ready to date again.

1. Are you really lonely? Having no one around at home can make our lives a lonely existence. Some BBW dates try to fill the gaps with a dog or cat until they find the right man. Others over-indulge in luxuries. If you just can’t stand the thought of another weekend home alone, you may just be ready for BBW dating.

 

2. Have you signed up for a BBW dating site? Have you gotten curious about the many BBW dating sites out there? Perhaps you have already signed up for a few of them, but have done little more than surf the profiles of available men. You may have started to fill out your profile but abandoned it. This is a good indication that you’re getting closer to wanting to date again.

 

3. Are you finding excuses? You could be making excuses for yourself as to why you shouldn’t go back to dating. Perhaps you don’t like the layout of that BBW dating site, or that you’re worried that a man will try to take advantage of you. But you can only make excuses for so long, as there really is a better plus size dating site out there to suit you. And you should be careful when searching through men’s profiles on dating sites so that you can avoid bad dating experiences. You just have to work past all your excuses until you have none left.

 

4. Do you talk to yourself? When you get really lonely, you may start talking to yourself, or pretend that there is someone else sitting at the table with you. While it’s okay to talk to your pets and even to the deceased family from time to time, it’s definitely a concern if you have to keep on pretending that you’re in a relationship. The only solution is to put yourself out there and start dating again.

 

5. Can you ask a friend for help? You shouldn’t try to do this alone. Ask a close friend to help you get back into dating again. Perhaps you need tips on how to freshen up your appearance with a new hairstyle and makeup. Perhaps you want to know what will attract the best men on BBW dating sites. Are you the type of BBW date that they’d like?

 
No matter how you lost your last partner, there is a healing process involved. It may be different for some BBWs. But the good news is that since you’re reading this article you are one step closer to your relationship goals!