Basic Dating Tips for Men Who Love SSBBW

plus-size-women-datingAre you a man who loves BBW? It can be just as challenging for a man to find dates on BBW dating sites as it can be for a woman to do the same. Whether you’re a BHM or a regular-sized guy, you want to have a positive experience for both you and your BBW dates.

Here are a few tips to help you succeed on BBW sites.

 

1. Watch what you say. There is literally no person alive who is happy with their weight, whether they’re skinny, average, BBW, or super sized BBW. It’s best to keep your personal thoughts to yourself, even if you think that you need to lose weight yourself. Don’t jeopardize your trust with an BBW date by asking her if she’s on a diet.

 

2. Be honest about sex. Almost everyone enjoys sex, and if they don’t, then likely they aren’t seeking a partner. Don’t pester your BBW date about sex. That’s a given once people are in a relationship. Also, if you’re only into casual hook-ups, then be sure to mention that BEFORE you invite your date out. Then men wonder why women drop their dates quickly once they find out they’re only in it for the sex. So, stop watching all those unrealistic TV shows and be honest with yourself about what you really want.

 

3. Have a friend critique your BBW dating profile. It’s tempting to make up a fantasy profile when you’re online and no one can see the real you at the other end. But this defeats the purpose of finding dates or a soulmate. So, don’t be afraid to tear apart your dating profile and put up some real photographs of yourself. If you watch 20 hours of sports a week, put that in. Women who don’t like sports may appreciate some alone time with their friends while you watch sports. And have friends critique your BBW sites’ profiles. After they’ve had a good laugh, follow their advice to make changes.

 

4. Don’t just talk about yourself. It’s easy to understand why you signed up for a BBW dating site because you’re lonely. But remember that there are two people at each end of the computer. Don’t just chat about yourself endlessly, be sure to ask your BBW date questions too. Most women can forgive a chatterbox if you still ask them plenty of questions too. It also helps to apologize and say that you don’t regularly have someone to chat to during the day, so that’s why you can’t stop talking.

 

5. Bring a small gift. Women love gifts, but they shouldn’t be big or expensive, especially on the first date. Better yet, if it’s something you’ve made—a bottle of wine, a pin, cookies—women love handmade gifts even more.

 

If you’re uncertain how to behave on the plus size dating sites, just try to put yourself in the shoes of your future BBW dates. Soon you’ll find a date for all those lonely nights, and you may just find a future bride too!

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