6 Tips To Help You Ask Men You Meet On BBW Dating Sites Out

bbw personalsHave you been looking through various BBW dating sites and found a man that sparks your interest? Are you worried that asking them out makes you appear desperate or needy? Women, all around the world, struggle with this dating issue. Should they or should they not ask a man out on a date?

 

Overwhelmingly… yes! Go ahead and reach out to this man. If he’s not making any moves or you’ve just seen his profile, then by all means – go ahead and ask him out. Why wait and miss out on the chance to be happy? Need a little assistance in reaching out to a potential suitor first? We will help you find the answers on our BBW blog.

 

 

Determine His Interest
Ladies, you have something known as “women’s intuition,” which can be extremely useful for any kind of situation. Use it to determine what a man’s interest is in you. It’s much easier to learn how a man feels if he’s already a friend or somebody you regularly hang out with. There are some men who think a woman should never ask them out, but you won’t know if this is a quirk if you don’t get to know them.

 

Friendly Crush

 

There have been cases where a woman has been hanging out with her best friend and realizes that she’s fallen for him. If this is what has happened to you, you have two choices – watch him to see how he feels about you (gauge him) or tell him outright, allowing him some time to process what just happened.

 

Stay Confident

 

Confidence is key to everything you want in life. If you’re going to ask a man out, be sure you display some confidence in yourself when you do. And, if you’re unconfident, fake it through your body language. Too confident though makes it seem as if you’re aggressive.

 

Use Body Language

 

Body language will speak volumes – much more so than actual words. If you’re interested in a guy, make sure to send him the signals. This includes making eye contact, sitting up straight, smiling, invading his space more, etc. You can also prepare yourself for the “big asking” by showing him that you’re interested – touching him lightly, talking to him more often, etc.

 

Choose The “Perfect” Time

 

The best time to ask a guy out is when you and he both feel comfortable. Don’t ask a guy out when he’s with his friends. He may turn you down because he’s embarrassed by it. His friends may have their own perceptions of social norms and women asking men out may not be something they see as acceptable.  Ask him out when he’s not with his buddies, and leave your friends behind too.

 

Calming The Nerves

 

Once you’ve approached a guy and have been talking to him – with a little flirting involved too – you can ask him out. If you don’t, it’s okay. You don’t have to ask him out right away. Instead, get his number and call him when you have the ability to pick up the phone.

 

How To Deal With Rejection

 

You’re going to face it at one time or another. You ask a guy out and, while he may be flattered, he may also say no. Don’t fret too much about it! As the old saying goes, “there are other fish in the sea.” The best thing to remember is that you had the guts to ask him out. Don’t quiz him about why he’s rejecting you – just move on!

 

Forgo social expectations that a man should be asking you out. If you like a man that you discovered in person or on BBW sites, go ahead and ask them out.

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